Thursday, July 31, 2008
Thursday July 31, 2008 12:10 am
Today is dialysis day and Brent is coming down this afternoon. Will is looking forward to that. Also Angel and Aaron are coming down tonight. They are going to stay until Saturday. They are bringing Aaron's daughter to meet her new Uncle Will. When Candace was here for the wedding, they wouldn't let her come and see Will. I will have pictures from this weekend because Tom is taking everyone to the zoo and then I will take them somewhere the next day.
Saturday Coach is coming to visit and he's bringing Ty Jones, the athletic director at Jerome High School (Will's boss). That should be a very good visit for Will. They have a lot to talk about. I think it is so great that these two brothers take time out every week to come and see their friend. It's the highlight of Will's week.
So there will be pictures on the blog soon.
God bless
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Wednesday July 30, 2008 2:30 am
Tomorrow should be his good day and he'll feel like walking more and getting off the vent. Today he was off for only 2 hours but he just wasn't feeling like doing more.
We did have some visitors from the ICU unit that wanted just to come up and say hi to Will. He was asleep but it was nice of them to take time off to come up and see us. We still miss them lots but there is a good bunch of people up here also, we just aren't getting close to them like we did the other floor. The young man, Moreno, that we have been praying for is still up here also. We saw him up in the halls earlier today. He's looking better.
Tanya, our good friend that has CF and is awaiting a transplant, is back in the hospital again. I know, she just got out but I think it's the lousy air quality that we have right now. Anyway, she needs your prayers and pray that they find donor lungs real soon. She's a tough cookie with the sweetest smile and beautiful heart.
God bless and thanks for the continuous praying for us. Our God is an awesome God.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
July 29, 2008 Tuesday 1:40 am
Dialysis day is today. We will see what the day brings.
I'm not going to write a book today. I hear the applause clear up here.
God bless
Monday, July 28, 2008
July 28, 2008 Monday 12:50 AM
I’m sorry that this blog is going to turn out to be almost a book. Everyone knows how I can make a short story long. SORRY.
This is a little explanation what has been going on this weekend. I snuck home for a couple of days and worked in my classroom. There was so much I needed to do. I know some of you didn’t know but I am going back to teaching this year. This was not a decision that was made lightly. I was making myself sick trying to decide what to do. I knew that I couldn’t ask the school district to hold my job more than they already have. It’s not all about the paycheck although that was some of it. So it was time to either go back or let them hire some one else, and time was running out because they would have had to find another teacher and that’s not easy. As any one of you know that Tom and I and his whole family would do anything to get Will better and get him home. With that said, we needed to know what to do.
So of course I did what everyone should do when they come to such a hard place. I prayed and then I prayed some more. I just wanted God to send a sign to make it clear what we should be doing. The next day I received a book in the mail signed by all the employees of the school district saying that they wanted me back. I got a call from my boss saying that he was coming up to see us and Will was getting ready to be transferred up to the intermediate intensive floor, which meant that he was doing better. We felt that that was the way God was sending us but then Will clinched it when he told me that he wanted me to go back and teach. He said everything would be all right. Well, with all those “signs” God was sending our way, the decision was made.
Okay now comes the true test. Jump off the cliff. No, not for real-that’s just what it feels like. We have no idea what’s going to happen to Will in the next few weeks or months. All we know is that God will provide everything we need to take care of Will. Are we nervous???? You betcha, but our faith in our Heavenly Father is great and when He gives us these trials, He also gives us solutions. We trust Him and I hope that all of you that are reading this understands when we really do say we have no idea how we are gong to work this. One day at a time, I guess. LET GO AND LET GOD
I know you all read this blog for information on Will and a lot of this is about me but I wanted everyone to know that we didn’t come by this decision lightly. I will started teaching in about three weeks and it makes me very nervous just saying that. But and this is a big BUT, Will will have everything he needs.
It was nice to be home for a couple of days, it almost felt unreal. I feel bad that I couldn’t see all my friends but I needed to get all my stuff done. I feel bad that we had to “sneak” around but I hope you all understand. And while I was gone, our good friend Kim did my “shift” and she was great even though the nights had to be so long for her. Tom did his normal days so we had Will covered. Richard and the kids stayed at the apartment and just hung out. How wonderful it is to have friends like that. THANKS WHITE FAMILY.
God bless everyone and thanks for reading this all the way through.
Sunday, July 27, 2008
July 27, 2008 Sunday 12:40 am
Will's Saturday was good. He had the best visit from Coach and Will's good friend from high school, Jason Warr. They came up to Salt Lake together and stayed for about three hours. They talked and had a great time. Will even stayed awake through it even having just had dialysis. He was looking forward to it all week.
They took two liters off today in dialysis. They keep track of his blood pressure during dialysis and when it starts dropping too low then they know that his body can't take any more fluid off without compromising his heart. Isn't that interesting? Bet you all didn't know that and it could be on the "end of hospital test" so take note.
I guess I should have said most of the day was good for Will. Those antibiotics that he started taking day before yesterday for the blood infections turned out that he is allergic to. So he itched all over all night long and most of the morning. They can't give him something like benedryl because that impedes the breathing process. So they searched to find something to use. The great doctors found something but I can't pronounce it so I definitely can't spell it. It does seem to be working though. He's finally able to sleep. He should sleep all night long now.
Kim and Richard White and the two great kids are still down today in Salt Lake and will go home tomorrow. They have been such fantastic friends to us through this all. How blessed we are that God allowed us to build our house right next to them. Little did the White family know when they sold us that land what they were in for. Friends are everything---well, no, family is everything----but right after family--friends are everything. Thank God for both, friends and family.
God bless
Friday, July 25, 2008
July 26, 2008 Saturday 12:15 am
Will did pretty good today. He walked twice and stayed on the trach mask for 7 1/2 hours. That's so much better than what he has been doing. The only thing growing out of the blood culture is that strep b. They have already started treating him for that. They also found another bug and it could have been causing him to swell even though the dialysis is working. They have started him on another antibiotic for that bug. Dr. Cahill, the sweet, patient, caring doctor she is said that within 24-48 hours he should be feeling better---then she told Will that's all the "bumps" so maybe Will will listen to Dr. Cahill since he won't listen to me.
Tom came back this morning and Angel left this afternoon. Revolving door around here. Just kidding. It's 104 here in Salt Lake today. HOT!
Kim and Richard came up for the weekend and are spending it visiting the Harbison family. That's so nice. We had a good visit today with Carrie and Judy. Tomorrow(or today however you look at it) will bring Coach and he's bringing a high school buddy, Jason Warr to see Will. They will sit around the bed and talk basketball or some other sport until they all run out of breath. Will's so ready for that. So tomorrow will be a great day even with the dialysis.
I hope everyone is spending time with their family on this wonderful weekend. Have fun and laugh a lot.
God bless
July 25, 2008 Friday 12:45 am
Will walked this morning before dialysis and then he did the dialysis and rested. But he stayed awake a lot more today than he has been. Angel and her brother had a good time. We had a great RT that came and took up for a wheelchair ride to see the fireworks out of a window on the other side of the hospital. They were beautiful but we didn't get to stay because Will was having a little bit of trouble breathing so we needed to get back to our room, but we got to stay for about 30 minutes. It was nice to get him out of the room. We still haven't heard from the last blood culture. We should know tomorrow.
Friday should be a great day, and he is getting stronger. Thank you for the prayers for my niece yesterday. She is doing better. Judy Osborne and Carrie Chisum are coming up today to visit. That will be lots of fun to catch up with them. Coach and Jason Warr are coming up on Saturday for a visit. Good times.
Tom will be coming back today. Yippee. Angel will leave today, so sad.
God bless
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Thursday July 24, 2008 1:48 am
Some of Will's tests aren't back yet but they should be tomorrow. It did grow out some strep in blood but that's not the same kind as we get in our throat (maybe the same family of bug??) He will have dialysis today and they want to take another 4 liters off. Today he did walk out in the hall once but then he's been asleep most of the rest of the day. Angel is kind of disappointed because he's not in the "visiting" mood. They did watch the Mets game tonight and then while he slept, Angel and I watched a "chick flick." It's so much fun for us when she comes up. Will gets so bored with just us. She'll go home on Friday and then on Saturday Coach will come up.
Some of you remember my niece, Missy, needing surgery to fix the one remaining kidney she has left. They did that today and I feel real bad because I thought it was tomorrow and I was going to ask for prayers for her. Well, she made it through surgery just fine and now she will be in the hospital a few days then home. They think they found all the kidney stones and got them out of there. It was a weird surgery because they went through her back to get to them and it was a four hour surgery. So she could use some healing prayers. Thank you for those.
Well, pray for those blood tests to come back negative so after dialysis Will can just rest and then he can get up and running. Maybe not running......you know what I mean. Tom called me tonight from home and I asked what he was doing. He said he was just sitting on his horse enjoying the peace and quiet. He really needs to get home more often. He went to a church picnic and saw quite a few friends (especially the ones with babies). Lots of fun there.
God bless
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
July 23, 2008 Wednesday 12:09 am
Tom mainly came home to put up the hay that was cut this week. This is Tom with his hay crew. They are just starting out. The kids are really excited because they get to drive the truck in the field. Riley and Hayley are the best workers you could ask for. THEN:
This is what Tom looked like after they got all the hay stacked. Big change huh? Riley still looks happy because he got to ride inside the truck. The White family helped Tom and they got it all stacked before the rain came. What good, good friends we have been blessed with. Thanks Whites.Well, today is our five month anniversary for Will's new lungs. I don't know if we say happy anniversary or has it been that long???? I really thought it was much longer than five months. Please remember the donors family in your prayers tonight as I do every night. Thanks
Today they did dialysis and they took off 4.5 liters. That's just about 10 pounds of fluid. It helped but not enough so they will take off some more either Wednesday or Thurs. He still is very puffy. This will definitely help his breathing. So today should be a better day. Tuesday he slept. I think he slept almost 30 hours with just a few minutes waking up. I did talk him into standing but it just lasted for two minutes. He just couldn't do it. But today we will see a huge difference I hope
Will's blood cultures are starting to grow something so they gave him a bolus (new word here) of antibiotics. We should know this morning what is growing and how to treat it.
A bolus is another word for a big amount to start with. A lot of times they give a bolus of antibiotics and then level off with a smaller amount. Sometimes they do a bolus of pain meds just to get on top of the pain and then level off. So there's another medical term all you bloggers just learned. Don't forget there will be a test at the end of the hospital stay. (just kidding coach). They did a few other tests also so they all should be back this morning, but remember kids, this is hospital time so maybe by midnight tomorrow night I will have answers-hee hee.
So please pray that what ever is growing won't be too serious. Thank you
God bless
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Tuesday July 22, 2008 2:20 am
Will's day wasn't as good as it should have been. He was more tired today and they have been taking a lot of tests. His white blood count is elevated which means they need to check for infection. So they did blood gases and blood cultures, xrays, and other checks. We should be getting some answers today. Today is dialysis also so the doctors usually don't make it by until after that.
I will let you know how things are going. Please say a prayer that he doesn't have any infections now. God hears us, every little prayer, and he delivers in his own time. Thanks for all your support.
God bless
Monday, July 21, 2008
Monday July 21, 2008 1:40 am
Will did some good walking today. He walked 34 steps in the morning and then more than doubled that in the afternoon. It took so much out of him, I can't wait until he's able to get around like the good old days. He just has to work to get his muscles and nerves back to where they were. He did get to listen to the Mets game on the xm radio. He enjoys that satellite radio so much. That was a good investment and we want to thank Coach again for that.
We are slowly getting to know the nurses here. They seem to be very nice and have fun personalities. It's still not anything like our "home" on ICU. We miss those people a lot. I told Will that we don't have too much more time until the end of the month--his goal for getting out of the hospital. We better get a move on. He doesn't have dialysis until Tuesday so tomorrow will be another good "movement" day.
God bless
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Sunday July 20, 2008 3:05 am
Dialysis started Will's day very, very early. They did take two liters off though. That means the rest of the day is spent sleeping. So that was our day. Very quiet. The doctors all came in and said he was doing well. So I don't know what else to say. One of those times I just don't have much news.
Today we will get him up several times for a walk. He should stay off the vent for quite a while today also. Hope everyone has a great day before the work week starts.
God bless
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Saturday July 19, 2008 12:05 am
Why ask Why?
Why do they lock gas station bathrooms? Are they afraid someone will clean them?
When it rains, why don't sheep shrink?
Why is the word abbreviation so long?
Why do people who know the least know it the loudest?
If a turtle doesn't have a shell, is he homeless or naked?
Should vegetarians eat animal crackers?
If the cops arrest a mime, do they tell him he has the right to remain silent
I hope you all are laughing so hard right now. You're welcome :)
Today was a better day. Will had his treatment very early this morning. Then about 10:00 am Randy and Brent Clark walked in. Under normal circumstances they would be taking their own lives in their hands. But Will was already awake. whew. He had a really good visit and it was so good to see a smile on his face. Those two keep Will laughing, well at least smiling. Sometimes we go days without seeing a smile so these smiles are so welcome.
Because of the last week's "bumps" Will is so tired still. Well, he slept for a few hours while they were here. He felt so bad but he couldn't keep his eyes open. Brent and Randy didn't mind even though they drove all the way down just for a few hours of visiting. While the guys were here, Tom and I went to lunch at Sizzlers. TOGETHER. Then we walked around Smith's for a while. We went totally crazy I know.
Tomorrow he will have dialysis and take a few liters of fluid off. He already walked twice today and that was a biggy. In the morning he was able to make it to the door of his room. BUT in the afternoon he walked down the hall a little ways and back without sitting down in the wheelchair. What a difference. As you can see, Will is back and going strong.
Here is a good passage from the Bible that fits today;
Psalm 9:10-12
The LORD is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.
Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you.
Sing praises to the LORD, enthroned in Zion; proclaim among the nations what he has done.
We are definitely singing the Lord's praises. He has been doing wonderful works in Will's life. We know He will continue to do so. Thank you Lord for helping Will through this last "bump" and we pray that it will be one of the last "bumps". AMEN
God bless
Friday, July 18, 2008
New Look July 18, 2008 Friday 1:20 am
Today started with Will going downstairs to the GI lab and getting another feeding tube put in. This one was done by the head dr. (I don't mean a doctor for the head, I mean the main doctor). He told me he put it in 40 cm further than the last one. Tauna (head transplant nurse)went into the room with him. Maybe that kept them on their toes. She's very protective of Will. This one is in for sure (I think). They started feeding him this afternoon a little at a time just to see if it's going to work. So far, so good.
During dialysis today he got a couple units of blood. He was needing this transfusion and now he should be getting some of his strength back shortly. He slept the day away again. But he won't be today. Today Coach is making his weekly trip down to see Will. Coach is retired so I don't know how he is paying the gas prices but I won't ask because when Coach or Brent come down it seems like one of Will's weekly highlights, come to think of it, it might be his only highlight. Coach will be making Will run his usual lines (not really, it just feels like it to Will). Brent will be here either tonight or tomorrow. So Will will be getting his walking in for sure.
Now we should be up and running again. Dr. Cahill came in and told Will to start working hard again and he could still make his goal of being in his apt. by the end of July. I was shocked because I know this last week has really knocked Will back on his bu......I mean posterior. (G-rated blog at all times). God is awesome in what He is doing in all our lives.
God bless
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Thursday July 17, 2008 12:34 am
Will still had a tough day. For some reason the feeding tube is still not working. The head dr. from GI (stands for gastric-intestinal, I think) will come up and fix it tomorrow some time, probably after the rest of his cases so it will be in the late afternoon. Will does have dialysis but we never know when they take him. There is no schedule.
Will did take a short walk this morning about 9:00. I know, you are probably all saying that can't be Will because he doesn't do anything before 11:00 am. He just wanted to get it done early which was a good thing because for the rest of the day he's been asleep. He didn't even wake up when his cousin, Danny, came to see him. I think all of this is just from lack of nutrition and once we get that all fixed things will be up and running again. He stayed off the vent about 6 hours today. Will's still trying to do as much as he can. He's amazing.
The young man, Moreno, is back down to this floor again, remember last week he had a set back and had to go back to ICU. He's looking so much better and I want to thank you so much for the prayers you have been saying for him. He's got such a great smile. He's got a trach in also so I can't talk to him but he smiles all the time. Someday I would like to ask him if I could take his picture so I can put it up on the blog so you all can put a face to your prayers. I think Will has the best blog readers in the whole world. Anytime we need prayers, we get 'em, even for people we don't know. We thank God for all of you.
God bless
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
July 16, 2008 Wednesday 12:30 am
We will just put this day down as "thank goodness it's over" because that's how it was. Will had a terrible night and then he just felt awful all day. I am sure almost all of his trouble is because of the tube feeds not being on. His headache hasn't left yet either but he has gotten his meds back in the feeding tube so that means he can have some pain meds that work. He has been sleeping most the evening and hopefully he will sleep through the night. He needs the rest. Then tomorrow he will be so much better.
We will plan to get him up and move him several times today . He wasn't able to get up yesterday, if fact, the dialysis came to his room instead of us going downstairs. We take his bed and everything when we go down to dialysis but he can't go down on a vent. He needed his vent all day today so he couldn't go down. Which was good for today. They took off only one liter of fluid.
Everything will be improved by the time he wakes up in the morning. God has His reason for all this and all we need to do is just put our trust in Him. Good things will come.
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
July 15 2008 Tuesday 12:45 am
My mom left this morning but it was sure good to see her. She got to walk with Will yesterday and this morning. Please pray for some relief from his pain and pray that his tube will work now. He needs food!!! Thank you for your love.
God bless
Monday, July 14, 2008
July 14, 2008 Monday 1:05 am
Will didn't have a great day but it was better than yesterday. He did get a walk in and Grandma got to pull his IV pole. Way to go Grandma. I think she was going to pull him out to the parking lot and into her car. Today, Monday, he should be getting his tube fixed. It's been a long weekend without it. I don't know how they will fix it this time because last time they fixed it, it just came out again. So we will see. Will did do his t-trial for almost 12 hours. Great work for someone not feeling well. He will do dialysis on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday this week. We don't know yet if they will pull any more fluid off him or not.
God bless
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Sunday July 13, 2008 7:15 am
Yesterday was a rough day for Will. It started too early for him with dialysis. They did take FOUR liters off which made him feel better with his breathing. Right before he went down the nurse noticed that his GJ tube came out. That's the tube inside his stomach tube that is threaded down to his lower intestine for his feeds and medicines. This is done so he can't aspirate it into his lungs again. So they worked on it-several different times by several different doctors (all thinking they have a better way, bless their hearts). By the time he was done with dialysis, he was so worn out and feeling sick. Then he had no way of taking any of his meds, so Dr. Cahill tried to get the tube down his nose but it wouldn't go. I don't know why. Now we are about five in the afternoon. They couldn't put another one in unless it's life and death because they have to call the surgery team in. It isn't life and death but to spend two days without meds and feeds can be dangerous. They were able to convert some of the most important meds into IVs and they can give them to him like that. So that's good but he doesn't have any way to get nutrition. But Monday they will take him in as soon as they can.
I just wish Will would quit doing this the hard way. So does Dr. Cahill. Today we will still try to get him up and walk. He wasn't able to walk yesterday but he did do well on his trach trial-10 hours-so that's gooooood. Maybe the walk will make him feel better.
Monday should see things improve. Pray for that please. I hope everyone has a great Sunday spending time thanking God for all the wonderful blessings he has given us all. We are sure blessed here.
God bless and thanks for the prayers
Saturday, July 12, 2008
July 12, 2008 Saturday 1:45 am
Will has had a very busy day. He had xrays downstairs on his lungs. Then Dr. Cahill decided to do a bronch. This last week, Will has started bleeding out of his trach again. Dr. Cahill wanted to make sure there's not something real bad happening. She was very pleased with what she found down there. So that shows her that there is probably fluid surrounding the lungs again. Tomorrow they will do dialysis and take a couple of liters of fluid off and see if that will make breathing easier again. they haven't taken fluid off all this week.
Coach and Donna came down for their weekly visits and they were in the room for the bronch. They got to see the inside Will's lungs. They were feeling like I did the first time I got to watch-just amazed what we were looking at. Will even got a few foot rubs from Donna. I am sure glad we get company here so we don't have to do all the foot rubs.
Before all this, Will did walk today and his aunts got to go with him. (They went back to Idaho after that) He walked 70 steps, I know that this isn't as far as he has been doing but he hasn't walked very far for a couple of days. But because of the bronch he didn't get to walk the second time until much later in evening. Coach wanted to stay to see him walk but with all the happy juice that they give Will during the bronch Will slept until 9:30 tonight. So tomorrow we should see Will's breathing get easier and then maybe he can stay off the vent for a long time. Then he will walk farther too, right?
Tomorrow Will's grandma, my mom, is coming up for a visit. I think she is bringing me some home-cooked food. I'm so excited (to see my mom and yes, for the food too). She will stay a few days with us. Tanya, our CF friend that is awaiting a transplant, went home from the hospital and I pray that she gets to stay home longer than a few weeks. The air is so bad here right now from the California fires. I also pray that she gets her new lungs soon. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend.
God bless
Friday, July 11, 2008
July 11, 2008 Friday midnight
Here's the video of Will and his namesake. Aren't they great together. Both smiles are so treasured by us.
Will had another bad day but this will be the last one for awhile.
It started out with dialysis because his kidney numbers were getting worse and he had a terrible night itching all over. The itching comes from all the toxins in the body trying to get out through the pores since the kidneys are not taking them out. I hope that makes sense? They really couldn't give him anything like benedryl because that is for allergic reactions and that's not what was making him itch. So we just tried to rub the itch away with ice bags.
Then while we were down in the dialysis lab his feeding/drain tube pulled out. This is something that was put in by a procedure down in the intervention xray lab, it's not something that could be put back in by us "normal" folks. So we had several drs. and nurses running around trying to figure out what to do. Will couldn't take any of his medications without that line and he couldn't have his tube feeds either. So it was quite serious and at first they said they couldn't get him in until tomorrow morning but Dr. Cahill said she gave up her ranch to the dr. so he would do the procedure early just for her. Wasn't that nice of her? She can always come live with us in Idaho.
I don't know if I have mentioned Dr. Cahill's assistants, Kelly and Tauna. Those two never miss a day of coming in and checking on Will. If we need anything, and I mean anything, they find a way of helping us out. So when Will's tube was pulled out this morning, within a few minutes Tauna came walking in. She got things straightened out. They are both amazing and they know everybody so they have a lot pull around here. We love them both so much. They just brighten up the room when they walk in and they always have time to answer the thousand questions that we usually have.
So Will didn't have any walks today and he was on the t-trial for the three hours he was downstairs on dialysis. But tomorrow will be different because it's Friday (already???) and Coach is coming down. He will get Will up and walking. Will's two aunts, Aunt Karen and Aunt Gloria, came up this afternoon and will stay overnight. They haven't been able to see him in quite a while. It was good to see them.
Pray for Will's kidneys if you would please. We want them to recover and start working again so he doesn't have to stay on dialysis permanently. I will have good news tomorrow because Dr. Cahill said that this is the absolutely last bad day. And we all know she's the boss, and we thank God for her every day.
Hope you all enjoyed the videos. Let me know.
God bless
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Thursday July 10, 2008 1:00 am
He didn't have dialysis today but he was still exhausted so he walked twice but not too far. He was having trouble staying off the vent so he stayed most the day on the vent. They did take him down to do an ultrasound on his kidneys. We will have the results tomorrow/today. They also did a blood gas and we will get the results tomorrow/today. They also took an xray of his stomach to see how things are looking there.
Please pray for Will's strength to come back today. Hopefully he will be able to breathe a little easier and then he can continue with his "good" days. We got kind of used to his little smiles again so we don't want to go back.
God bless
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Wednesday July 9 1:30 am
I wanted to share this picture with you all. My daughter's stepdaughter (in the towel) went to church camp today. They were supposed to be praying. How cute that is. Carson, the little boy next to Candace is trying so hard not to peek, but he is, so Candace decided not to let him look at her. The other kids are just not with it yet. Isn't that a sweet picture. Kids are just the most precious things in life.
God bless the little ones and God bless the big ones too.
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Tuesday July 8, 2008 12:22 am
Tomorrow they are going to get him about 9:15 and take him down to rehab and let him try the bike. That will be a good indication if he's ready for some different types of exercise. I hope he can at least do a few minutes on the bike. We need to do everything that we can do to make Will's life feel normal. For months now his life hasn't been even close to normal.
We had to move rooms again. They needed us to move across the hall because they are more set up for a vent than in our other room. Now we don't have a beautiful view of Salt Lake City. We have a beautiful view of a brick building, but if I look closely I can see people in the windows of their offices. That sounds terrible, I hope I don't get arrested. We have been getting many of our "old" nurses from ICU visiting Will the last few days. Mama Bear, Aka Carolyn, hasn't missed one day visiting with Will. See how blessed we were with the "family" of nurses that we had. It is so good to be able to see them. I know we won't ever be able to forget them. They were so good to us.
Speaking of that, we did get one of Will's favorite nurses from ICU to float down here. It was Sumer!!! What a surprise that was. She never gets to float to this floor and to have Will as a patient was a great coincidence. I hope they all can float down here at one time or other.
So tomorrow, or should I say today, we will try to get him up walking and exercising a lot to make up for today. Oh, I forgot to tell everyone---The young man that I had you all praying for in the ICU, Moreno, was moved down here the same day as Will. Isn't that great! He looks so much better, I think he only weighs 90 pounds though. His mom gets to come see him once a week on Sunday (I don't know the circumstances of that) and I talk to her. She seems so relieved about his progress. I have been telling her that we have been praying for him. She was so grateful. Please continue to hold him up in your prayers, and don't forget our Tanya for her new lungs. Thank you for all your prayers.
God bless you all
Sunday, July 6, 2008
July 7, 2008 Monday 12:15 am
The picture below is when Sadie decided she liked "Uncle" Will well enough that she will bestow a kiss on his cheek. It was so cute. They left about two this afternoon.
Saturday, July 5, 2008
July 6, 2008 Sunday 1:30 am
This is Will's little cousin that was named after him--Coby William. We finally got to meet him.
The hospital staff let us sneak him and his family in to see us. (Notice the outfit)
and notice the smile on Will's face. Priceless.
Below: Tom is carrying little Sadie Kay, she's three and Will used to be her favorite but she didn't want anything to do with him because he was in the bed. She just didn't understand why he couldn't talk to her and play like old times. We told her it won't be long.
Baby's smiles are God's special blessing on us all. Who can resist?
Coby is just fascinated with all of Will's machines. He didn't mind laying in bed with Will.
This is Billie, the mom, Sadie, the Princess, and Coby all entertaining Will.
Coby just couldn't quit laughing. He thought Will was funny.
Here's Uncle Tom trying to get Sadie up on Will's bed. It didn't work, but Coby thought it was fun. This is a good picture of how good Will's looking.
Nothing but good news. The visitors have been helping. Having kids around has helped us all feel soooooo much better. That's what we all needed. And all the doctors are really making us feel so good. We missed Dr. Cahill again but Brent and Stacee were here when she came in. They said she just couldn't quit praising Will's progress. Dr. Cahill even wants Will to try rehab on Monday. She wants him to go down to try to get on the bike a little bit. I guess it just depends on dialysis. This is so exciting considering less than two weeks ago, he had trouble lifting his arm off the bed. God is doing such wonderful things in our lives.
July 5, 2008 Saturday 1:09 am
I hope that everyone enjoyed their Independence Day celebration. The freedoms this country has offered all of us is a great cause to celebrate. How blessed we all are to be here. I couldn't see the fireworks from our window, even though the window is very big.
We had more visitors today. We love that. The Clarks came back up this morning and visited. Then my superintendent, Kevin Lancaster, and his wife and son came up to visit us on their way through town. It was so good to see them. Will told Kevin he needed to give me a raise to help pay for the hospital stay. Since the stay in the hospital will probably cost way over one million dollars, it's going to be a BIG raise. This is the way that I know Will is getting better. His sense of humor is coming back. Thank you, God.
Then after the Lancasters left, my neice, Billie, her husband, Matt, Sadie Kay, and the new little baby, Coby William, came to visit. This was the first time to meet his little namesake. This little boy is so beautiful, sweet, and happy. Little Sadie cracks me up. She didn't really like Uncle Will this time. Usually Will is her favorite but he was in the hospital bed and couldn't talk to her. So that was strange for her. We did take cute pictures. They are coming back today to visit more. We will enjoy every minute.
Will had a dialysis session today but they didn't take any more fluids off. The drs. were satisfied with the results they have. Not to say they won't take more fluids off at a later date. He didn't get to have it happen at his bedside. He had to go downstairs with a few other people. Will said he didn't like it because it was really boring for the three hours of dialysis.
Well I will pray for traveling mercies on all who are on the road this weekend. Kim and Richard are home tonight. Their trip was very nice.
God bless
Friday, July 4, 2008
Fourth of July Friday 1:43 am
HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY!!!!This really started as a good day. Around midnight the drs. decided they could safely move Will off the ICU floor and put us on the intermediate intensive care unit. It's one step down and the rooms are all brand new. It is really nice, but we are so sad. We didn't want to leave the floor after 17 weeks up there. We have made such good connections with everyone there. They are like our family. Seriously I did have to have a little pity party for myself. I love everyone up there. But, it is a very good step forward in Will's journey home. So YIPPEE!!!!! Will's going to make his goal to be back in the apt. by the end of July. He did 12 hours on the vent today. Wow. He just keeps getting better and better.
He will still have dialysis and t-trials and walks just like our old floor. We will just have to train all these new nurses like we had to with ICU when we first came there. We will now have a whole new set of friends that we are meeting. I hope they like us----I feel like a kid in a new school. Will they want to be our friends??? Will we have anyone that will take Carolyn's position and Will's protector, Sumer's position as a sweetie, Kate's steady head, Tracie's book club and good food, and all our good RT's that have been pushing Will????
I'm really tired tonight from moving and everything so I think I need to go to sleep and I will let everyone know how wonderful this new floor is tomorrow night. We did have visitors today. Jesters stopped by on their way to Denver and Brent and Stacee Clark came up to visit. While they were visiting Will, Tom and I went to dinner together. It had been so long we didn't know what to talk about. I didn't get those pictures on the blog but I will hopefully today. Maybe I will take pictures of the new room.

God bless
Thursday, July 3, 2008
July 3, 2008 Thursday 1:37 am
They started Will's dialysis about 7:45 this morning. That isn't good because then the whole day seems to be wasted because Will is so tired from all that. We did get him up and walking tonight about 10 pm and he gave it his best shot. He didn't walk as long as he did yesterday but that is to be expected. He did do a t-trial for 11 hours. I never thought we would get to this place where he is doing that for this long. Maybe he's finally beginning to trust his new lungs. They did take another 4 liters off him today. I will try to get another picture up on the blog really soon. He's just shrinking before our eyes.
They did another doppler (ultrasound) of his blood clot in his neck. It hasn't really changed at all. They were hoping it would be dissolving by now. The good news is that there isn't any more. The drs. decided that they would stop the heparin drip and just do shots in the belly three times a day. Will wasn't very happy because they are very painful, but it has to be done.
Will is expecting some company this weekend. He's really excited and I will have great pictures then to show you.
We got some really good news about Richard White but I need to ask Kim if I can share it on the blog when I talk to her in the morning. She sure has some funny stories about them being in the big city of Houston. Talk about country hicks, so maybe we need to pray for them to make it back here safely.
People are beginning to leave SLC to go off to the mountains where they will bump into everybody else from SLC. I don't know if I could camp like that, practically on top of each other. Anyway if any of you are going camping, have fun and be safe. Angel and Aaron are going to take Candace, Aaron's daughter, camping. I can't wait to see the pictures.
Oh I forget, they had a bomb scare at the hospital today. For about four hours nobody was allowed in or out of the hospital. They finally did a sweep with bomb sniffing dogs and it was just a hoax but it was kind of scary for a while. The news crews were all over outside. The police weren't letting anyone up the hill. They told us if they found anything they would have to evacuate the hospital. How would they get these patients out of ICU??? There is some very, very sick people here. I hope they catch the sicko that called it in. I do thank God that it was just a hoax. Exciting times in the big city.
God bless
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
July 2, 2008 Wednesday 12:50 am
The news is still good today. Will did 9 hours on the t-trial all at once. He walked this morning farther than he has. So I went out and measured with my steps because we don't have a measuring tape and I knew it would be an impressive gain. Day before yesterday, he walked 37 steps; today he walked 67 steps. That's just one day improvement! He's going to make his goal of being in the apartment by the end of July (maybe).
Carolyn took us on a walk (wheelchair for Will) outside and around the hospital. It was so nice to get out again. It's hard to have a nurse leave the unit to take us on a walk but Carolyn thinks it's very important for Will to see life outside of this place. We agree with her. Thanks so much Carolyn. Sumer gave Will a shave which he needed. Thanks, Sumer.
Today is another dialysis so we will start the day early with the walking because after dialysis he isn't up to doing anything. They want to pull off another 4 liters. It's working wonders. Nothing but good news lately, isn't it wonderful? Life is so good.
Please remember to keep Richard White in your prayers today. He's still in Houston and he will be getting his results from all his tests today. We know God has good things planned for Richard. Richard, we love you.
Tanya, our Cf friend that is awaiting a lung transplant, is back in the hospital again. Please say a prayer for her and pray that she gets her new lungs quickly.
Everyone is gearing up for a wonderful 4th of July. It will be a great weekend.
God bless
Monday, June 30, 2008
Christi's turn
Great minds think alike (and dress alike, apparently)
Hello all! I thought it was time for a fresh voice to inform all of you about Willie’s progress (and a few other things to spice it up a bit), so I have locked Aunt Terri in the closet while I take over. (Coach – I expect my payment in full if you want me to keep her in there). I have some big shoes to fill, however, since she does such an amazing job of keeping us “in the know”. I told her yesterday that the reason I was always so impressed was because she writes in such an organized and clear manner and that is soooo NOT the manner in which she thinks or talks. The focus she must endure to say the actual names of the nurses on the first try instead of writing “Summer, er Deb, no - Caroline, Jack, I mean……whatever her name is”. I don’t think she knows how much we appreciate her willingness to skip the usual role call and just spit it out already.
My visit has been more than I could have hoped for. Willie’s progress in just the few days I have been here is astounding and from the sounds of the cheers (literally) coming from everyone on the unit, he has been consistently and quickly (relatively speaking) blowing them away. Forget the medical side of it – he is getting compliments left and right about how great he looks, and who are we kidding – that is really what matters, right? It must be the enormous amount of weight (fluid) he has lost since he started dialysis. He is shrinking before our very eyes and I just know the day his chicken legs return is right around the corner. Aunt Terri and I have asked for dialysis too, but the stingy medical people didn’t think it was the answer to our weight issues. What do they know? They also said no when I asked for some pain meds when Will gave me the thumbs up (behind the nurse’s back) while getting his. I really don’t think he should be able to brag about the awesomeness of his happy pills knowing full well I wont be able to experience it with him. He can be so selfish.
He has doubled his walking distance since I got here yesterday and he went from 6.5 hours on the T- trial yesterday to 8 hours and 22 minutes today. He kept telling everyone it was 8.5 hours. He lies, and I just can’t go along with it. Oh – and he cheats too. While we are doing crossword puzzles, he tells me to look in the back. I said, “We are only on the second word….I am not looking in the back”. I told him - just like I wont lie with him, I wont cheat with him. I do have some morals and I am not going to let Willie taint them. I will make him a deal though – If he says a bad word, I will cheat with him. Guess who wont be cheating anytime soon?
Dr. Harris (I think that is right), who is the head doctor over the ICU, came in today to see Will. She told him that if he kept bringing tears to Dr. Cahill’s eyes, then she was satisfied. Dr. Cahill seems every bit as wonderful as Terri says and she seems pretty tough, so if his progress is enough to bring tears to her eyes – that says a ton.
He stayed awake for quite awhile today too, which was huge considering he had dialysis again (another 4 units) and that usually wipes him out. After he was done with that I rubbed his knees, which were only sore because he is getting old. I know this because my knees were killing me when I stood up to rub his (and we are the same age). Of course that could have been because I spent 30 minutes wandering around the apartment parking lot this morning after my run looking for the right building. In my defense, there are at least 890 buildings in their complex, they all look the same, I forgot to look at the bldg # before I left, and I was totally discombobulated (your new word for the day, Keri) after getting lost on the trail and coming back the wrong way to begin with. I only humiliated myself with that story because I knew Terri would if I didn’t and she would have been merciless. Back to the point…where was I? (I had a Terri moment for a second) Oh yeah - we then watched some Seinfeld (these pretzels are makin’ me thirsty), did some more crosswords, chatted about my boys and school, got caught up on Keri’s daily emails (which are an absolute riot)………. And then he finally decided to take a rest. Thank God because I was exhausted! Of course they come in every twenty minutes to check this or refill that or give him a treatment, or insulin, or whatever……It was impossible for me to get any rest. :-)
I have spent my whole life admiring Will, as I know all of you have. It is impossible not to. Even so, I had NO idea how endless his capabilities really were. My time here with him the past few days has reminded me that there are very few people (if any) that we encounter in life that can exude the strength and humility that Will does, and to be as blessed as we are to have encountered him in any way at all is more than most people could ever dream of. I have come to believe that with this gift we have all been given in Will comes huge responsibility. We owe it to him to live our lives in a way that illuminates our gratitude and makes him as proud to know us, as we are to know him.
You are pure magic, Will and I LOVE YOU!
Your favorite cousin, Christi
PS: I almost forgot to tell you that Uncle Tom sucks at reading lips. I think it warrants mentioning.
June 30, 2008 Monday 12:27 am
Hey Everyone!
Come down to Famous Dave’s in West Jordan to support The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.
Channel 2 will be holding their survivor casting auditions and ribs are only a dollar from noon to 4 p.m. All proceeds go to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation so come down get some grub and watch the wacky auditions. Also, watch channel 2 from 6 to 8 a.m. where Matt Meese will be the spokesperson for CF!
Date: July 3rd 2008 (Next Thursday) Time: Noon to 4 p.m. Location: 7273 S. Plaza Center
The last day of June already. Wow that went very fast. Angel and Aaron left this afternoon but we had such a good visit and it was one of the few times that they saw a huge improvement with Will. So it was a good time. We have had such a good response from the pictures that we put up. Thank you for all the positive feedback, I let Will know how many people were impressed and happy with the way he looked. I am going to try to keep taking them so you will be seeing him improve as we do.
Today he will do another t-trial or two. Then he will have dialysis and they plan to get another 4 liters off. His xray does show a little improvement but still quite a bit of fluid around his lungs so hopefully that is where the dialysis will start pulling the fluids off from. He got up and walked again in the hall.
Will's cousin, Christi, is up here for a few days. She's a teacher so she just got out of school and then she got a summer job but she told them she needed a few days before she started so she can come up and see her cousin. I wish her two sons could have come up also but they won't let kids into the ICU. They did a lot of crossword puzzles today while I went home to sleep. I think they cheated but they won't admit it. When Will and I try to do some, we get about four or five answers and that's all.
The days are getting better and we know what a blessing it is so we take nothing for granted. We thank God for what we have. Just a reminder, please keep praying for Richard, our good friend and neighbor while he and his wife, Kim, are in Houston at the cancer center there. I will let everyone know how it goes.
Our God is awesome and he listens to every prayer.
God bless
Saturday, June 28, 2008
June 29, 2008 Sunday 1:20 am
Don't forget to double click on the pictures and it will enlarge for you.
This is another picture of the two that I am trying to play matchmaker for. They make such a cute couple and they need to name their first child after me. Just kidding. I will keep you informed of the saga of Antonio and Shaleena. Will doesn't think I should be doing this but hey, it's great fun.
These next pictures are more of our room decorations for the Fourth of July. We are very patriotic.
Will had a good day with the walk and we will even have a better one tomorrow. Sunday we will put more time in on the t-trials, and of course, walking. He is gaining his strength quickly.
Friday, June 27, 2008
June 28, 2008 Saturday 2:30 am
This picture is of Sumer and Will after we decorated the room. Sumer lost the flip and had to wear the Uncle Sam hat. Will just had to wear the beads and hold up the flashing flag pin. This place is just way too much fun. Just kidding, but we do have some fun times.
Will had a good day because he got up and walked out in the hall and then sat in a chair for 45 minutes. He rested and did a 3 hour and 15 min. t-trial. The longest yet since he got his pneumonia. The Drs. took him off his antibiotics today. So he made it through this "bump." Have we turned the corner???? I don't know. I think we have turned many corners. No, I really believe it's only uphill from now on. He's just doing so good. Everybody has been so excited when they see him. I am going to have some more pictures up today so you all can enjoy them.
Then on top of that he had a good visit with Coach and they listened to the Met/Yankees game. About 5:00 Will got a visit from his good friend from high school, John Thompson and his family. It was so good for Will to get this company. Angel has been here and now Aaron will be here this morning. We all want to take Will out for a walk this morning before it gets too hot. This will be his second outing since we have been here. He won't have any dialysis on the weekend so he will have some good goals and I'm sure he will meet all of them. It's going to be a good weekend, his cousin, Christi is coming up also. Maybe I can get her to do the blog for a few days because she's the English teacher.
I need to take care of a few side notes for Will. Here they are.
Happy Birthday, Brenda. We all love you. Come see us soon.
Miss Gregg, we hope you are recuperating well. We miss you. Take care.
Mrs. C. we are thinking of you a lot, anything we can do, let us know.
Thanks and don't forget to let us know who gets the 50,000 blog hit. Should happen today, maybe tomorrow. I hope everyone has a great summer weekend. I know we will. Love to all
God bless
June 27 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOM 1:51 am
Will wants me to make sure I put this on his blog for his dad. So we are going to have a party up here on the unit and the nurses are really excited for some cake and ice cream. They told me that they probably won't be able to wear those silly little party hats but I told them I would get them all those little noise makers that you blow into and they make a noise and unroll. Then they can use them on their grouchy patients and it will put a smile on their faces. Ya think???
Sumer and Will were helping me decorate Will's room tonight. I got some cute pictures and tomorrow I will put them on the blog. Yup, I got my computer fixed. I guess my hard drive was fried. I don't know how I did that, it could have been from so much blogging :)
Will had a good day today. He didn't have dialysis and he really had a good nights sleep so he was ready to roll. Tomorrow will probably be a little different because dialysis really wears him out. But then he has Saturday and Sunday with no dialysis and maybe we can really get some good walking and t-trials out of him.
Angel and Will had a real good day of "messing with mom." That's a game they like to play. I don't think it's that funny but hey, they get a good kick out of it. I will be glad when my son-in-law gets up here because Aaron doesn't let them pick on me. No seriously it is so nice to watch Will with his sense of humor coming back. I will even take all the teasing they do. Will is staying awake for longer periods now, except after dialysis. Everyday Will is just getting stronger and stronger. It won't be long and we will be coming home.
If you want to send Tom a birthday greeting on the blog, it's okay (even though this is supposed to be Will's blog) . I will make sure he reads them.
Within the next couple of days this blog should hit 50,000 hits. That is so awesome, but I would like the person that gets that hit to please blog or email me the time. I will put it on the blog. harbisonterri@hotmail.com There's really no prize but it will be fun to see who "wins" the hit.
God bless
Thursday, June 26, 2008
June 26,2008 Thursday 3:20 am
They took off another 4 liters (about 9 pounds) with dialysis and he is more exhausted today than he has been. The drs. said they might have to slow it down so his heart doesn't get dehydrated. Today is his day off so he will be feeling great when he wakes up this morning. Hopefully he will do a lot with that new-found energy. He still has to walk and do t-trials.
Coach will be coming up on Friday (Tom's birthday)and Tom will be come that afternoon with Aaron. Aaron hasn't been able to come up in a long time so it will be so good to see him. Then on Saturday Christi, his cousin, will be coming up for a few days. I can't wait for all the company to see how well he is doing. It does all of us good.
God bless
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
June 25 Wednesday 3:00 am
Will had a great day and maybe it was because his little sister came up to see him. She makes him smile with her goofy things she does. He still had to work hard today. The drs. decided not to do a bronch. We are really glad for several reasons, one being that when they do a bronch we seem to loose a day of forward moving and Will is on such a good roll. The second is that it hurts, plain and simple. They still might decide to do one but right now they don't think he needs one. Yea!!!
Will did two t-trials today, 15 minutes more than yesterday. Today Will walked clear to the door. That's four feet and back again. I know we have been there before but this time it seems different---more---oh, I don't know how to describe it, it just seems that this will be the last time we will have to start over again. I hope that makes sense. He told a good friend of his, Brent, that he will be out of this hospital by the end of July. That's a good goal.
Today he will do some more dialysis and they hope to pull more fluid off. Then he will still do his t-trials and walk again. With our bigger room he is going to have to walk farther to get to the door, it's probably about six or seven feet. But, he can do it. It's in God's hands.
Wait for the LORD;
be strong and take heart
and wait for the LORD.
Psalm 27:14
God bless

